Confusion..

I come for dinner. Dinner is good. Roast beef and potatoes. Delicious.
I am told me rings were found, and they were. I am happy. So happy.
I returned the ring given to her by her aunt which she gave to me in the interim to finding my rings.
For this, I do not understand, I am chastised.
I wanted to do the right thing; returen the ring that was given to her by her aunt. In my mind it was the right thng to do..Her aunt gave her the ring. It was not mine.
I still keep the origninal ring she gave to me four years ago. This ring means more to me than she will know.
For some reason, I have done something wrong. And I do not understand.
I returned her aunt's ring.
I thanked her for returning the rings she bought for me.
And I retain the ring she originally gave me in the beginning....
She says she is confused. Well, I am confused, as well.
Seems confusion, misunderstanding and frustration (along with migraines) runs through every attempt I make at making things right.
No more drinking. Check.
She has stopped smoking. Check.
Am I to stop smoking?
Will that make this endless cycle of being held at arm's length stop?
Will the trust ever return?
Will there be something else?
Only God knows.
Only God.